Bernadette's Vision

There are some major shifts of energy happening this week, leaving many people feeling confused. I want to touch on some of the things you may be feeling to give some validation as well as understanding.

As we approached 2012 the energy began to shift. The veil is thinning, this means that our ability to see things not normally sensed by the normal senses is easier. It also means, the time between cause and effect has greatly shortened.

Let me explain, cause and effect is the time it takes for you to do, think, feel something and have it show up projected into your life. In recent times, the time between cause and effect was much longer. We would think, feel or do and we wouldn't see it's affects for days, weeks or even months. Manifesting was a little more difficult if we couldn't hold the focus.

Currently, when you think, feel, do anything, it is manifesting into your life rather rapidly. This major change can be a great blessing if you are focused on positive things. It can also be very detrimental if you are feeling sad, frustrated or anxious and continue to focus on that without purposefully shifting.

As a Psychic Advisor, it has created some challenges in doing readings. You see in the past, things moved slower. We could tap into the energy at hand and as long as the energy of the individual was pretty consistent, the outcome of a situation was predictable. I've talked to a few psychics who have said their readings are confusing them. They clearly see something happening and it heads in that direction then suddenly does a 180degree turn. They've asked me why I think that's happening.

Spirit has shown me that the reason for this is rather simple. Since time is speeding up, manifestations are also happening quicker. The things we are seeing or feeling as Psychics is based on the things the person is feeling, thinking, doing now. If they stay intent on having or being a certain way, then the path remains the same and the reading is fulfilled. If something comes along and throws them into doubt, confusion or negativity, it immediately manifests a major change in the outcome.

What does this mean if you are getting a Psychic reading or giving a Psychic reading? It means that it is imperative to stay conscious of your thoughts and feelings. If you are Psychic and giving readings, now you must look at more then just the first outcome you receive. It means you have to look at the other possible outcomes instead of just the probable one. I will write a future article on being Psychic and doing readings in 2012.

Does this mean a reading will not be accurate? No, it means that if you stay focused on controlling your mind, feelings and actions, keeping them on the current course, your reading will be accurate. The good news is this, if you don't like the outcome in any reading, shift your focus, change what your doing, feeling, thinking and you are automatically changing the outcome. This doesn't always work however if you are wanting a specific outcome with someone else. That is a whole other article.

For now, clear your mind, detach from situations which are creating a break in your own personal peace. Watch the video from last week if you need help detaching. Connect deeply with Self and keep a journal of your daily thought, feelings and actions. As you do this, you become more conscious of the energies you are personally working with.

Stay in the present moment, not the past, not the future, NOW! In the present moment you have the power to create the reality you desire.

Leave your comments or feedback below. I would love to hear from you.

(c) 2012 Bernadette Dickinson all rights reserved.

Next week, I will be doing a slide show video with tools and tips on Managing Life as an Empath.

The arrival of 2012 is a blessing. Don't get me wrong, 2011 was fantastic. On a personal level I got a ton of projects done. I added goats to my mini-farm and some new tropical plants to my Growing Dome.
The best part, health and vitality were pretty consistent in my home. Except for my daughter's car accident, we all got through the year unscathed.  No Swine Flu, no surgery and aside from Asthma and strange environmental allergies, I'm happy to report we are all going strong.

Looking back over 2011 I realize that my 2011 forecast was right on track. Read here. I did a meditation a few days ago and contemplated posting 2012 predictions, but I've decided against it this year. For much the same reasons I didn't want to post them last year. So much of what I read from other Psychics predictions are what I call "Fluffy". They make you feel good, but aren't necessarily accurate or helpful.

 I will tell you is this, the weather this year will continue to puzzle everyone. Food prices will continue to soar, so be prepared and by extra's when you're shopping. Have an Emergency food supply, water supply and medical supply. Natural disasters are continuing into 2012.

Like last year, the good news is that people are waking up!

I would urge you to check out Alternative Medical treatments and Holistic Health remedies. It's more important then ever to be in control of what you put into your body. As change continues, it is up to us individually to be responsible for our own health and not leave it up to the failing Healthcare system.

Remember, you are in control of your reality. If you want change, create it! First within you, then watch how things manifest around you. Our lives are an outward reflection of our inner selves.

Be Blessed!
Bernadette Dickinson (c)2012

In the last blog we focused on being clear of our intentions so we can create the life we desire. You should have a list of priorities, values and intentions. I promised I'd tell you what to do with that list.

Hopefully you have listed your priorities in order of importance, if not do that now. Next, make sure your values are listed in order of importance too. Next, go fill out this work/life balance calculator. (Hint I use the leisure category for activities with my family, friends and hobbies. Because I have no commute, I use the commute column for time spent meditating and pursuing spiritual growth. You can substitute whatever your desire.)

Now that you've completed the calculator, compare the time spent on activities versus time spent on things you call priorities. If that is off balance in accordance to your listed priorities, you need to schedule differently and intently. For instance, if I say Family is important but only spend 4 hours a week with them, I'm not living in accordance to my priorities. I will then adjust my schedule so that my priorities are in balance. Play with your schedule to find one that lines up with your priorities.

Next, look at your value list. I value life, integrity, honesty, openness, trust and compassion. I must look at myself honestly to see if what I value most, I'm living and projecting in my own life. If I value honesty but don't live an honest life, I'm not fulfilling my own expectations. Whatever you value, you must project so as to remove all inner conflict. As you line your life up with your values, you will find you are surrounded by others who also hold the same values. If you value trust, but you are in a relationship that is not trustworthy, you must decide just how much you value it.

Living in conflict with our values and priorities cause a great deal of inner turmoil. Our lives then become a chaotic, reactive, drama instead of a life of peace. It also creates a lack of personal integrity with those closest to us. If you tell your partner you value relationship over work, but always choose work before the relationship, you are lying. You are either lying to yourself or your partner. In either case, you have created unnecessary tension for yourself. If you are teaching your kids the importance of family yet you don't make time spent with family a priority, you are sending a mixed message to your children. Again, you are either lying to yourself or them.

Correct your schedule, align to your own personal values and priorities. I promise if you live in accordance with your true values, your life will be a life of joy, love and abundance!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Blessings,
Bernadette Dickinson

_Did you wake up this morning ready to clean the Christmas mess? I got a head start and started cleaning last night. Our celebration was intimate and small so we didn't have much to clean. I just have to take the tree down but I'm enjoying the soft lights at night, so I may leave it for a week more.

As the year winds down it's time to think about your intentions and path for 2012. What you want, who should be there, where you want to go, all things to consider. For instance, I am determined to lose some 'Thyroid' weight and plan to do a Green Smoothie Fast as well as start a new workout routine.

Being clear on our intentions is mandatory if we want to create the life we desire. Start your list of priorities, values and intentions. Right before New Years Eve I will post a blog about what to do with that list.

For today, just start your list and add to it as the week progresses.

Blessings,
Bernadette

Real questions I've been asked.

1. "It's been 5 years, is he coming back?"
2. "We have been having an affair for a year, when is he going to leave his wife?"
3. "Who's my baby's daddy?"
4. "Should I wear the red or blue dress?"
5. After the first date "Is he going to marry me?"
6. "I met her at her work, is she going to stop being a stripper for me?"
7. "Is he going to stop cheating?"
8. "I've texted him like 20 times and left 10 messages today, when is he going to reply?"
9. "Am I going to ever lose weight?"
10. "What's the winning lotto numbers"

Yes its true I get asked these questions all the time. They are funny sometimes, but not always. If you have to ask, you need me to be your Life Coach not your Psychic.

Happy Holidays!!

__ Everyday our lives act as a mirror for us to truly see where we need to grow and where we need to give. Relationships provide a very personal mirror to the beliefs, attitudes and points of growth within us.

When things are flowing smoothly it’s easy to see beauty and express love. When things begin to become conflicted and full of turmoil we tend to blame others, circumstances and events for our unhappiness. During the times when things are challenging, we have the biggest opportunity to grow.

How others relate to us can be a very big mirror. When others seem hostile, angry or selfish we want to point blame. We in turn get defensive and can easily see their faults and faulty beliefs. How often do we stop our judgments of others and ask ourselves “What do I have to learn from this about myself”?

In romantic relationships we are quick to feel injured, rejected, abandoned and rejected when the object of our desire doesn’t respond in accord with our desires. In turn we withdraw, disconnect or retaliate. This energy only perpetuates our negative feelings and can destroy a relationship quickly.

Daily practice of mindfulness and meditation can create conscious and loving behaviors in you and in turn those around you.

When things around you begin to feel chaotic, overwhelming or just dissatisfying ask these questions:

            What am I projecting to others and my environment?

            What am I thinking about this situation or person?

            How can I change my thoughts and feelings about this to reflect love?

            What Am I really upset about?

            What can I give to someone else that I feel I am lacking?

When you begin to clarify how you feel, and shift to a place of love for yourself and others, you will instantly see a shift of energy. Sometimes that means allowing others to feel angry, sad or take time alone. Allowing others the freedom to express themselves fully is the ultimate act of love. If they are being abusive then it is up to you to stay a safe distance from them. Know you can’t change someone and accept you can only change yourself.

I will be posting communication techniques in upcoming blogs. Until then, Happy Living!!


Blessings,
Bernadette
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I'm pretty excited for this month! Yup it's my birthday, the big 45! I have been doing some exciting work and learning some new skills to add to some old under used skills. I'll be sharing with you later this month.

This month Jupiter returns to it's direct station in Sag on December 25th. Thankfully Mercury Retrograde ends on December 14th.

The 11-11-11 activation has proven to be super helpful in moving to higher levels of consciousness and love. I hope you are all enjoying the push forward that the Universe is offering.

Until next time,
Bernadette